A New Religion Is Rising — And Most People Are Worshipping Distraction
- Bishal Lama

- Apr 17
- 9 min read
Updated: May 25

The Great Split No One Talks About
If we don’t course correct, the world will split.
Not rich and poor.
Aware and unaware.
One religion will study leverage.
They’ll know how money works.
How markets move.
How attention is stolen.
They’ll choose what to consume, and what to ignore.
They’ll read the right things.
Build the right habits.
See the right trends.
The other religion?
They’ll celebrate getting a Netflix account—clip coupons for dopamine hits.
Live inside screens.
Get fed ideas, feelings, behaviors... all on autopilot.
One will design reality. The other will escape from it.
Attention Is the Battlefield
You’re not lazy. You’re outgunned.
Every platform you open is a weapon.
Not a product. Not a tool. A weapon.
Built to hijack the only thing you truly own — your awareness.
TikTok didn’t "go viral."
It was engineered.
Engineered to keep you in a dopamine loop — where 15-second hits of novelty become your daily drug.
Average session time? 95 minutes.
That’s not entertainment. That’s capture.
Netflix doesn’t want you to "watch a show."
It wants you to binge 6 hours, wake up drained, and repeat.
Why? Because attention is the new oil.
And you’re the well.
Instagram, YouTube, Twitter — all the same game.
Infinite scroll wasn’t an accident.
It’s a trapdoor to nowhere — designed to keep your thumb moving, your brain passive, and your potential sleeping.
This isn’t entertainment.
It’s engineering.
Social media isn’t free.
You’re the product.
Your attention — the price.
Apps are built on dopamine loops.
A notification triggers a chemical response.
Your brain loves it. So you repeat it.
You think you’re checking messages.
But you’re chasing a feeling.
This isn’t a tech problem.
It’s a consciousness crisis.
The elites aren’t smarter. They’re just aware.
They’ve opted out of the dopamine matrix.
They’ve trained their brains like athletes — not consumers.
They know:
→ What to read
→ What to ignore
→ Where to place attention
→ How to say no
→ And when to disconnect
Attention is currency. And it’s inflating.
The more content we create, the faster attention moves.
Not because people care less—
But because we flood the system with stimuli.
More production → more consumption → faster saturation.
Now imagine this:
You drop a topic into the world.
In the past, it would grow, peak, and fade slowly.
Now?
It explodes fast. Peaks fast. Dies fast.
Same peak height. But the ride is shorter.
Like a firework instead of a bonfire.
The system isn’t broken.
It’s overloaded.

We’re compressing time.
Not expanding attention.
That’s the tradeoff.
Why it matters:
This isn’t just Twitter or TikTok.
This is books. News. Memes. Movements. Ideas.
Everything is accelerating.
And as we speed up, the collective attention span shrinks.
Not because we lack depth.
But because the system only rewards novelty.
Speed is the game. Depth is the casualty.
The scary part?
Just by increasing one variable—r—you replicate all of it:
Gains.
Losses.
Attention peaks.
Cultural turnover.
Change nothing else.
The math fits.
The data fits.
The world fits.
What now?
Understand this:
Attention is finite.
But content is infinite.
If you're a creator, you’re not just fighting for visibility—
You’re fighting time.
To win, you either:
Go deeper than the noise.
Or hack the speed and play the game better than anyone else.
Those are the only two edges left.
“In the future, the literate will not be those who can read and write, but those who can unlearn and relearn.” — Alvin Toffler
The Medium Is Not What You Think It Is
What if your thoughts aren't even yours?
What if they've been shaped—quietly, invisibly—by the tools you use every day?
Books.
Clocks.
Television.
Smartphones.
They don’t just deliver information.
They decide what kind of information feels real.
They frame what matters.
They filter how you see yourself—and the world.
Marshall McLuhan said, “The medium is the message.”
Postman goes further:
The medium is a metaphor. A tool that silently tells you how to think.
A clock doesn’t just tell time.
It creates time—as a sequence, as something you can measure and control.
A book doesn’t just tell a story.
It trains your mind to think linearly, to hold abstractions, to engage deeply.
TV doesn’t just entertain.
It rewires your attention.
It says, “Only what moves, shines, and shocks is worth noticing.”
You don’t just use tools.
They use you back.
Every tool hides a philosophy.
A worldview.
An assumption about what’s real.
And if you're not aware of it, you start believing it.
Not because it's true.
But because it's everywhere.
That’s how culture is created.
Not through conscious agreement—
But through invisible metaphors baked into the mediums we absorb.
You don’t see reality as it is. You see it as your media allows you to.
Your job?
To pause.
To notice.
To ask,
“What is this tool training me to believe?”
Because once you see the metaphor,
You’re no longer controlled by it.
You can choose a new one.
And that’s where real freedom begins.
You Were Programmed Into It
At first, Facebook was a toy.
A digital college directory.
A way to see your classmate’s face.
A way to check who your crush was dating.
No one said, “This will shape your identity.”
No one said, “You’ll be spending hours here, every single day.”
Same with the iPhone.
It wasn’t a portal to dopamine hell.
It was an iPod with a phone.
Steve Jobs was excited that voicemail had a better interface.
No one cared about apps—because there were none.
But look around now.
You check your phone before you sneeze.
You scroll during dinner.
You post a picture of a sunset…
…and forget to look at it.
We didn’t see it coming. Not because we’re dumb.
But because these tools evolved faster than our awareness could.
We didn’t adopt them. They inserted themselves into our routines.
Little by little. Notification by notification.
And now?
They don’t serve us—we serve them.

Multi-billion-dollar companies are competing for your attention.
Not by asking for it—
But by hacking your psychology.
Exploiting your dopamine.
Engineering your habits.
They don’t sell phones or apps.
They sell addiction at scale.
So no—
You didn’t stumble into this life.
You were nudged.
Manipulated.
Pushed.
And now, you’re in it.
Unless you choose to take the power back.
Checking your “likes” is the new smoking
Bill Maher Usually Talks Politics.
But on May 12, 2017, he looked into the camera…
And said something different.
The tycoons of social media have to stop pretending that they’re friendly nerd gods building a better world and admit they’re just tobacco farmers in T-shirts selling an addictive product to children. Because, let’s face it, checking your “likes” is the new smoking.
In 1995, Mike Wallace interviewed Jeffrey Wigand.
The whistleblower who exposed Big Tobacco.
They weren’t just selling cigarettes—
They were engineering addiction.
“Philip Morris just wanted your lungs,”
Maher said.
“The App Store wants your soul.”
You’re Not Addicted To Your Phone.
You’re Addicted To Dopamine.
But not just any dopamine. Intermittent dopamine.
Like a slot machine.
Pull the lever.
Sometimes, you win.
Most of the time, you don’t.
But that sometimes is enough to keep you hooked.
Back in the 1970s, scientists ran an experiment:
Pigeons would peck a button.
Sometimes they’d get food. Sometimes they wouldn’t.
The unpredictability made them obsessed.
Fast forward to now.
You post on Instagram.
You wait.
A like. A comment. A DM.
Or… silence.
That silence hurts.
But the reward?
It’s electric.
A bright ding of pseudo-pleasure.
You don’t know when you’ll get validation.
That’s what keeps you coming back.
Again. And again. And again.
This is not random.
It’s engineered.
Tech companies studied addiction.
Then built systems to exploit it.

That’s the level of manipulation we’re dealing with.
Tagging? Not for connection. For control.
Auto-tagging in photos isn’t about convenience.
It’s about triggering you.
You get a notification.
“You were tagged.”
Someone thought of you.
Dopamine rush.
They spent millions building this.
Not because it was useful.
But because it was addictive.
Sean Parker, Facebook’s first president, said it himself:
“We’re exploiting a vulnerability in human psychology.”
Let’s get real.
You didn’t choose this life.
You didn’t ask for this endless scrolling.
You didn’t decide to be distracted.
This system was built for you to lose.
Your time.
Your focus.
Your agency.
You aren’t broken.
You’ve been baited.
The game isn’t fair. Unless you know you’re in one.
Now you know.
The illusion of speed is killing your focus
BlackBerry once said,
“Anything worth doing is worth doing faster.”
Google says,
“If you’re not fast, you’re doomed.”
But science says otherwise.
Guy Claxton studied slow practices—yoga, meditation, tai chi.
He found something simple but powerful:
Slowness sharpens focus. Speed shatters it.
Your brain isn’t built for velocity.
It’s built for rhythm. For presence.
Claxton said, “You have to shrink the world to fit your cognitive bandwidth.”
Move too fast—your mind fragments.
Move with intention—you regain clarity.
Suppose there was a man who had been running his whole life.
Not on a track. But in his mind.
Emails. Deadlines. Notifications.
He believed, like most people do, that faster meant better.
One day, he decided to do something strange.
He signed up for yoga. He hated it.
His body was stiff. His mind was louder than ever.
He tried to distract the teacher with deep questions about politics and philosophy.
But the teacher just smiled—and told him to breathe.
Day by day, something odd happened.
He stopped arguing. He started listening.
To his breath.
To the silence.
To the moment.
By the end of the summer, he could stand on his head.
But more importantly—he learned to stand still.
The noise inside faded.
His shoulders softened.
His heartbeat slowed.
But just when peace arrived—guilt showed up.
Not because of anything he did wrong.
But because outside the yoga studio, the world kept sprinting.
And in a culture addicted to speed…
Slowing down feels like falling behind.
So why don’t we fight back?
Why don’t we slow down collectively?
MIT neuroscientist Earl Miller explains:
“Your brain can only produce one or two thoughts at a time. That’s it.”
But we didn’t want that to be true.
So we created a myth:
Multitasking.
It worked for computers.
Not for humans.
What we call multitasking is really task switching.
Juggling. Rapid reconfiguring.
And every switch comes with a cost:
Cognitive fatigue.
Lower performance.
Scattered thought.
You’re not multitasking.
You’re self-sabotaging.
Every time you switch tasks, you don’t just lose time —
You lose clarity.
You lose presence.
You lose your edge.
Here’s how it breaks you down:
1. The Switch Cost
Check a text for five seconds?
Your brain takes much longer to reboot.
You don’t just lose five seconds — you lose momentum.
Every glance costs focus. Every ping resets your mind.
It’s like rebooting a computer every time you open a new tab.
Performance drops. You move slower. You think shallower.
2. The Screw-Up Effect
Switching creates errors.
Not because you’re careless,
But because your brain has to guess where it left off.
Glitches creep in.
Instead of building ideas,
you’re fixing your own mistakes.
3. Creativity Drain
Creativity isn’t found in chaos.
It’s built in silence.
When the brain isn’t distracted,
it starts to connect.
Old ideas collide. New thoughts emerge.
But if you’re always reacting?
You never go deep enough to create something original.
4. Memory Loss
UCLA proved it:
Multitasking kills memory.
You don’t retain what you rush through.
And if you can’t remember, you can’t grow.

Fight Back
Your brain is under siege.
Not just distracted. Not just tired.
Adam Gazzaley – neuroscientist and modern-day brain whisperer – broke it down like this:
Your brain is a nightclub. There's a bouncer at the door – strong, alert, no-nonsense. His job? Keep the chaos OUT so you can focus.
But that bouncer?
He’s fighting a war he was never trained for.
Years ago, he only had to handle a few distractions:
a car honk, a conversation, a phone buzz.
Today? He's dealing with an onslaught.
Constant pings, dopamine hits, noise, noise, NOISE.
This isn’t just about task-switching anymore.
This is sensory overload.
Every second. Every moment. Every environment.
Your open office?
Your favorite coffee shop?
Your bedroom in the city?
Battle zones.
And the bouncer?
He’s collapsing.
He’s letting in the noise.
He’s letting in the chaos.
So now your brain – the once sacred dancefloor of deep thought and clarity –
is full of drunk distractions, screaming, fighting, puking on your purpose.
And you wonder why you can’t think.
Can’t focus.
Can’t stay calm.
Because the bouncer has given up.
Because you’ve made him fight alone for too long.
Someone said it best:
“We have fundamental limitations. We can ignore them, or we can live differently.”
You think you're fine because you're surviving?
Wrong.
You're drowning in digital debris.
And even when you escape – even when you run off to some quiet town with books and silence and ocean air – the addiction still hunts you.
Your hand still reaches for that dopamine slot machine on your nightstand.
Your brain still craves the chaos it hates.
This is not normal.
This is not sustainable.
This is not freedom.
This is the moment you decide:
Do I let the nightclub burn down? Or do I rebuild the walls, rehire the bouncer, and take back my mind?
We evolved to do one thing at a time. Your brain hasn’t upgraded in 40,000 years.
But you’re pretending it’s a machine. It’s not. You’re not.
And pretending otherwise is costing you your life’s best work.
We’re witnessing a great split.
Not of class.
Not of race.
But of consciousness.
On one side, you have the aware.
They’ve unplugged—not completely, but intentionally.
They use the internet like a scalpel:
Precise. Focused. Purposeful.
They consume with filters, not cravings. They create more than they scroll. They make decisions based on inner signals, Not outer noise.
And on the other side? The distracted.
Hijacked by notifications.
Living inside loops of reaction.
Scrolling through borrowed dreams.
Outsourcing thought to trends, And purpose to pixels.
They don’t know they’re being farmed.
But their attention is the crop.
This divide is growing. It’s no longer subtle.
One path leads to sovereignty—Over time, energy, creation, life. The other leads to sedation—A mind slowly dissolved in digital fog.
This isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about direction.
Every tap, every thought, every choice—It compounds.
Eventually, the split becomes irreversible.
You either build a mind. Or lease it.
Choose your side.



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